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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 10:40

How does one succeed in life?

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

That's it for today.

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Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Does not procrastinate.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

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Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Hangs out with loser friends.

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Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Losing 20kg is a goal.

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Making more friends is a goal.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Is it wrong that I picked to be a Christian (as a teenager/14-year-old) even with knowing all of the information about other religions/atheism?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Living to your full potential is a goal.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Why are flat Earthers made fun of when they seemingly don't exist? I have only met one flat Earther in 18 years.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Ask yourself:

Do not set goals—set systems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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